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A good friend shared with me that statement this evening while we were chatting. We had been chatting about losing some weight and to improve ourselves when she said it, and it really made sense to me when she wrote it, but I took it a but further. Yes, I would love to lose the extra weight I carry, but I would also like to lose all the imperfect feelings, thoughts and actions that I seem to put myself thru to get thru life.

I have got to be strong for myself and stick to it. Stop giving into temptations, stop going for the instant gratifications. I have to change who I am to be the person I want to be.

Thanks Tina, now all I have to do is make one of the motivational posters to go along with it.

Sure, I’ve take the Myers-Briggs test on different occasions (mostly work related team building crap), but recently I took it again, and this time, I thought about my answers before I answered them. And my personality type turned out to be that. I can’t say I disagree.

Here’s a snippet from Wikipedia:
“Myers-Briggs description

Extraverted feeling types seek continuity through harmonious relationships and collective values. They excel at picking up on the tone of a situation and acting accordingly, adding warmth to a cool setting or turning sour into sweet. They naturally seek to know what people do well, what they enjoy, and where and how they work. They seem to have an infinite number of acquaintances from all walks of life and are always on the lookout for people in need and those who can help out. ENFJs weave and strengthen the collective fabric of social conventions and interactions. Inclusiveness is important and they are particularly sensitive to those who are excluded.

ENFJs focus on others, feeling a glow when those around them are happy, and troubled when something is amiss. They are natural cheerleaders, often expressing support, gratitude, and encouragement, and heaping praise onto those they appreciate. They take note of what is being done and what needs doing, offering their assistance wherever necessary.

ENFJs enjoy organizing group activities and tend to take their commitments seriously. In general, they are reliable and do not like to disappoint others. As team players and project leaders, they have a gift for rallying their players, focusing on what is being done right and each member’s strengths. They are loyal and they expect loyalty. They carry conversations well, finding common ground with their speaker. They tend to find the correct and gracious way to respond in any given situation, no matter how tense or uncomfortable it is.

Extraverted feeling types will uphold a wide range of values, simply because shared values are what create harmony. Some will profess the importance of tough-minded logic, justice and scholarly debate because their environments have these shared values. They tend to adopt the collective values of those they love and ‘belong to’.”

Love Song by Tantric

“Love Song by Tantric”

So here you are you’re knockin’ at my door with saddened eyes
The color is the same but there’s a change
The difference is between the little lies I’ve told
To keep a peace. You know the love was still the same

Oh it’s better in life to lose a minute
Then have to go through life and really never get to live it
Your primrose path is just an illusion
I’m sick of all your dirty lies that cause this confusion

I never wanna hear another love song
It’s all all bunch of lies and I’ve been through it all
I know its like I’m bitter, I don’t give a shit
I hope you’re really happy and you choke on it
I never wanna hear another love poem
Or claiming all your love in truth was done
I know it’s like I’m bitter, I dont give a shit
I hope you’re really happy and you choke on it

God forgive me for these random things
The little things I do, it’s really not my truth
Everything is overwhelming me, constantly deserping me
‘Til I get away from you

It’s better in life to lose a minute
Then have to go through life and really never get to live it

I never wanna hear another love song
It’s all all bunch of lies and I’ve been through it all
I know its like I’m bitter, I don’t give a shit
I hope you’re really happy and you choke on it
I never wanna hear another love poem
Or claiming all your love in truth was done
I know it’s like I’m bitter, I don’t give a shit
I hope you’re really happy and you choke on it

And I smile as you listen and you’re thinking to yourself
You’re the reason why your living in this pain

I never wanna hear another love song
It’s all all bunch of lies and I’ve been through it all
I know its like I’m bitter, I don’t give a shit
I hope you’re really happy and you choke on it
I never wanna hear another love poem
Or claiming all your love in truth was done
I know it’s like I’m bitter, I don’t give a shit
I hope you’re really happy and you choke on it

I never wanna hear another love song
It’s all all bunch of lies and I’ve been through it all
I know its like I’m bitter, I don’t give a shit
I hope you’re really happy and you choke on it
I never wanna hear another love poem
Or claiming all your love in truth was done
I know it’s like I’m bitter, I don’t give a shit
I hope you’re really happy and you choke on it
On it
On it
On it, on it, on it
I hope you choke on it